If you need to get out of the friend zone, ignore it or not? You may have heard some people say that you should start ignoring them, but most people don’t know why this works or if it really helps. This article will explain why this information circulates and makes sense of it.

When you’re head over heels in love with a girl who only thinks of you as her friend, it can be depressing and frustrating when you want to be more than friends. One of the big mistakes guys make when they find themselves in this situation is trying to get as close to this girl as possible because 1) they enjoy being around this girl and 2) they think if this girl knows them well enough and they like her more, they will fall in love with them.

Of course, this tactic does not work and thus the idea of ​​a friend zone is created. A place you can’t escape from being her friend to become her boyfriend.

This is where some people tell you to ignore this girl. The theory for most guys is that if you suddenly stop being friends with her like you were before, they will crave your attention and start chasing you. Sounds good right, they want your attention, you stop giving it to them, they come running after you realizing how dumb they’ve been and suddenly you’re a potential boyfriend.

Let’s see what really happens. You start to ignore her, she has a lot of other friends to hang out with and talk to, she sees you less as a friend, and you distance yourself. You don’t want this, do you?

So… should you ignore her? The answer is yes and no, you need to tactically give her attention so that you can blur the line between a friend and a potential lover to the point where she no longer sees you as “just a friend.” Let me explain… Showing her less attention accomplishes a few things.

• It makes you look a bit more mysterious; suddenly she doesn’t know everything about you.
• It shows that you have other things in your life that they respect. If you are always at his beck and call you look WEAK and like a follower, not like a man.
• You can start to control how you interact with this girl. Instead of spending time just hanging out, you can say that you’re busy, but make time to be with her on occasions that are more memorable. You see, when they’re thinking about potential lovers, it’s not about how long you’ve spent with them or how well they know you…it’s about who gave them the most exciting memories…it has to be YOU.
• Now you have more time to work on the image you give her so that you can show the qualities that make ALL women interested.

Get out of the friend zone? ignore her? Yes, but in moderation and only if you have a plan to rebrand yourself as more than just a friend.