First of all, the foreplay will start around 6:00 pm and will last at least two hours. If he goes through with the plan, her wife should beg him to make love to her at 8 pm.
Take the pressure off yourself to provide innovative foreplay. Put in a little time and effort to enhance your evening.
1. Make sure the apartment/house smells good. You can buy scented candles at the supermarket. Don’t spend too much time on this, just buy a scent you like and make it into a large candle.
2. Place the candle in the center of the dining table or coffee table, depending on where you are serving dinner.
3. No, you don’t have to cook. Order at a local restaurant, have it delivered or pick it up. If a full five-course meal is out of your budget, buy five different items. Pop it in the oven or microwave so you can heat it up before dinner.
4. Put on some music. No hard rock or R/B. Jazz. Kenney G or Miles Davis. Take the drug store bought baby oil and bubble bath and place it on the bathroom counter.
5. If you have a tablecloth, put it on the table. Then place the candle on the tablecloth. Flowers can be pretty, but they are not necessary. Clean the bathroom, kitchen and bedroom. These areas will become your stage from which you will perform.
6. If you are married, send the children to your mother-in-law. If you are single, pick up your date or wait for them to arrive.
7. No television. This is her moment, make her feel special. If you can’t get through the night without the TV on, at least turn down the volume.
8. Once your date/spouse arrives, dim the lights. Ask her how her day was. You may not want to hear who did what, but ask anyway. In other words, have a conversation. Slowly steer the conversation back to her romantic evening. Whisper something sweet and then feed him.
9. Serve dinner by candlelight. Serve wine with dinner, just to help get her in the mood. It doesn’t have to be expensive wine, but make sure you have to use a corkscrew to open it!
10. Then take the party into the bathroom for a bubble bath. She washes his back and uses her imagination.
11. After the bubble bath, accompany your partner to the room. If you really want something special from her, take her to the bedroom! It may be a good idea to make sure the bedroom is warm.
12. Remember to take your candle to every destination within the house. Once in the bedroom, massage her entire body with the baby oil. (Or you can buy body oils for sensual massages) If you have trouble massaging your entire body, then massage your feet.
Don’t go all the way yet. joke with her Touch her, approach, retreat, approach again, retreat. Every time she thinks she knows what you’re going to do next, do something different, until she finally gives in.
Note: Do not answer your phone or text anyone during this process.