No matter what the situation is, whether you just met the guy or you’re on your first date, you have to remember to be yourself.

Don’t get tense. And don’t do a hundred little weird things to give him the impression that you’re nervous around him or that you’re not really being yourself.

Stop smiling nervously.

Stop being restless.

And stop agreeing with their opinion ALL THE TIME.

Just relax friend.

Acting all nervous and uptight can make the guy run the other way faster than you can say “I haven’t been kissed in months!”

Also, don’t think too much about how your date is going. Thinking too much about what might happen next can take you away from the experience of being in the present. Just talk to him like you’re talking to a friend, this will allow you to relax and be spontaneous.

Mess with his head.

Yes, you heard me right. MESS WITH YOUR HEAD.

Break their chops.

Tease your way into her heart.

Make it obvious that you are in control of the circumstances. . . and of yourself

And if something goes wrong, stay calm.

For example, you could accidentally drop your wine on his nice shirt or you could accidentally hit him in the jaw or you could even unknowingly tell him too much about your wacky habits.

If any of these happen to you accidentally, don’t take it personally, just write it down as a minor slip up and move on. Don’t worry, everyone goes through them at least once in their life, so you’re not alone.

The sad thing is, do you know what most women do when unexpected things like this happen? They usually say to themselves, “I knew it, I screwed it up again. Why can’t I attract the guys I want? Why do I have to screw it up every time? I think I’ll be alone forever… “

Now you don’t want to be like that, do you?

So just UPLOAD each bug to EXPERIMENT.

You know where you made your mistake, right? Therefore, learn from the experience and strive to do things differently with the next man you meet.